I'm going to start with the elephant in the room. As I already mentioned, what Josh Duggar admitted to doing 12 years ago is sick and terribly wrong. He made terrible mistakes and has to live with the knowledge of what he did for the rest of his life. However, his transgressions are in no way unforgivable in the eyes of God. The media and other liberal organizations are crowing and cheering at this story and claiming that it exposes the hypocrisy of his Christian faith. That claim is completely and totally bogus. Josh Duggar could be accused of hypocrisy ONLY IF he claimed that he has lived a perfect life. To my knowledge, he has never said anything of the sort and has accepted responsibility for his mistakes. A fundamental truth in Christianity is that God will forgive ALL sins when confessed with a repentant heart. Mercifully God isn't like humans who want to pick and choose which sins are forgivable and which are not. The Bible is littered with stories of people who committed so called "big sins" but were forgiven and further used by God to advance His kingdom. Christians fail to live up to God's standards every day, and in God's eyes a little white lie is just as much of a sin as Josh Duggar's transgression. God will forgive and forget all sins when we truly confess and repent. However, that does not mean that we are not left with the consequences of that sin, as I'm sure Josh Duggar has learned over the past decade, The bottom line is that Christians are sinful, fallible human beings which is exactly why we need the grace and mercy of the cross of Christ. The media and the left try to use the mistakes of Christian public figures to discredit Christianity. In reality, the failures of Christians and God's forgiveness of our mistakes should be one of the most appealing aspects of Christianity.
The second issue I have with this whole debate is the fact that those on the left, particularly those who advocate and push the LGBT agenda are gleefully embracing this scandal to vilify those who simply choose to believe differently from them. The media has been successful in convincing our society that if I disagree with someone then I must hate them. That attitude is one reason our country is in this period of gridlock and contempt for one another. This attitude is pervasive across all aspects of life, including religion and politics, and it is patently false. We ALL have the freedom to choose what to believe and how to believe. I have many friends whose personal and political beliefs are different from mine, and there is nothing wrong with that, I don't dislike or disrespect them because they choose to live differently than I do. I respect the rights of all Americans to choose to live their lives the way they want, and I, along with other Christians, simply ask for the same consideration in return. The left accuses conservatives, and especially Christians of intolerance when they are the ones who are intolerant of anyone who disagrees with them. Many people on the left side of the aisle have done many abominable things, but we hear almost nothing about it because it won't advance their cause so it gets brushed under the rug. Ironically, liberals and LGBT advocates have been openly hostile towards Christians who do not share their political views or condone their lifestyle, but strangely enough, this is not considered hate speech when it is directed at Christians. This double standard is both appalling and completely unfair. The Duggar family, my family, and other Christian families have the same rights and freedoms within the law as liberals to choose how to live our lives and raise our families. I can't speak for the Duggars, but I can speak for myself and many other Christians I know. We do not under any circumstances hate gay people nor do we think that God hates gay people. We simply have prayerfully studied and considered the issue and believe that the homosexual lifestyle is not God's design for the family. There is absolutely nothing hateful about that. All we ask is that we are given the courtesy to choose what to believe without being attacked and having the liberal agenda shoved down our throats. Ironically those who scream so loudly at us to be loving and tolerant are themselves full of hate and intolerance towards us.
My final issue with this whole controversy stems from our society's desire to publicly judge and try everyone in the court of public opinion. From George Zimmerman, the shooting of Michael Brown, the death of Freddy Gray to Josh Duggar. Between the constant 24 hour news cycle and the proliferation of social media, we have turned into judge, jury, and executioner when we have little to no facts about these situations. We treat each other shamefully as we hide behind the anonymity on the internet. We need to stop and think about how we would feel if we were in the same situation and our past mistakes were being broadcast for everyone to see. How would we feel if we were going to be tried in the justice system but the media had already decided on our guilt before we ever set foot inside the court room? How would we feel having to read vile and hateful comments directed towards us? How is it that those who preach love and acceptance are so quick to fail to offer it to others?
Yes, Josh Duggar did a bad thing and he has to live with that. However, God is a god of forgiveness and second chances, and every single one of us is in need of that forgiveness and freedom. Christians deserve the same freedoms and respect as those who choose to believe differently. Those who militantly push acceptance and tolerance need to practice what they preach. We as a society need to stop publicly humiliating people who fail because we all make mistakes, and one day it could be us in that situation. We need to turn away from this hatred and anger in society and remember to treat each other with decency and remember our shared values and humanity.